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Why did you choose to become a counsellor?
I was moved by the experience of being a caregiver to someone, who struggled for the major part of their life, having tried everything possible, no body in our circle knew that a concern like this needs to for to a mental health professional. If only we had that awareness perhaps we could have reduced the struggle of the person and the people around them, this was followed by a bad experience with a mental health professional which again ended up doing more harm, all of this inspired me to to become a mental health professional.
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What excites you about your work as a counsellor?
I really enjoy working on Mental health awareness, using different mediums like art, painting, movie screening, music, play which helps bring people together and connect with each other.
I also deeply enjoy creating safe spaces of expression and understanding mental health.
I also love that I get to work with different emotions in the therapy room, and supporting people in understanding themselves and expressing themselves.
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What do you hope for your clients to experience after their first session with you?
To get an a brief experience of what my approach to therapy is; an understanding / perspective of their concerns and an understanding of how can I support them in their journey through my work.
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What would you wish to tell a client who is thinking about seeking counselling?
I would tell a client who is considering seeking counseling that taking this step is a sign of strength and self-awareness. It’s an opportunity to gain deeper insights into your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and to work through challenges in a supportive environment. Therapy offers a space where you can explore whatβs been weighing on you, develop healthier coping strategies, and ultimately, work toward your personal goals and growth. Itβs a collaborative process and it taker strength to reach out for help, specially with so much stigma around psychotherapy and mental health
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Describe the relationship that you would wish to build with your client in counselling.
In the beginning of the therapy process, I explain about therapy being a collaborative journey and talk about what can they expect and what how can they be a part of this collaborative journey. I encourage open communication, where they can share their thoughts and feedback about the process. I also check in regularly to see how they feel about the progress we’re making and adjust if needed. By co-creating the therapy experience, I attempt to ensure that the work is aligned with the needs and values of the person I am working with, making the process more meaningful and effective for them.
I aim to build a relationship that is grounded in trust, respect, and empathy. I want my clients to feel safe, heard, and understood in our sessions.
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In your counselling work so far, what has been your greatest learning from your clients?
At this point I would say one that I re learned was the beauty and impact of being oneself and taking up space. I added a small library in the office room which I thought a lot about, wondering how would these books and stories impact the people I work with, and to my surprise those books became a part of so many people’s healing journey. There were some people who loved reading, some people who wanted to get back to reading, people who started exploring reading for the first time and started enjoying it and some who know they don’t like reading but they like having these books in the space and sometimes relate to a title or the other. It’s almost contagious and now the same thing is happening with paiting as well.
There are a lot of things people have said in their sessions that stayed with me, like a young adult who spoke about how he addressed patriarchy at home by insisting on being equally involved in household work as his mother and insisted on it till it became acceptable at his home.
I have also learned a lot about myself and my social identity.
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What are some of your strengths as a counsellor that you value and appreciate?
Empathy, attempt to create safe spaces of expression, bringing together various forms of arts and crafts together (need based only) in my work with people and communities. And I deeply enjoy creating more open conversations around mental health.
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What are some of the things you like to do in your free time?
I enjoy exploring art like painting using different mediums, exploring historic and mythological stories, I love learning about different cultures, stories and I deeply enjoy spending time in nature ,clicking pictures, cooking gardening flowers and reading.
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What are the areas of concern you address in counselling? Do you work with specific populations?
Most of my work has been with students, young adults and middle age adults who struggle with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, childhood trauma. I have also worked with people with visual disability as a part of my career in the beginning of my work.
I aim to make mental health more accessible and affordable for people in Rajasthan, which is why I try to offer therapy to people in Rajasthan from urbal and rural spaces. But my work is not restricted to Rajasthan, I do work with people from other cites mostly online.
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What is the therapeutic approach you use? How would you describe it to someone who wants to consult you for therapy?
My approach to individual psychotherapy is psychodynamically informed, and is supportive and collaborative in nature which helps one recognize how their experiences and relationships have impacted them. Through a reflective process I aim to support them in understanding your patterns in various aspects of their life.
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How do you make your therapeutic practice a safe and affirmative space for queer and trans* folx?
I do try to create a supportive space for people from LGBTQ+ community, where right at the beginning I ask them what are their pronounces and have a conversation about how their gender identity has impacted their experiences and journey. I also try to talk about how my gender can play a role in the therapy room, but for me it’s still a learning process and I need to go a long way.
The Quote Mrigtrishna Resonates With
We need to dig deeper, to look at people's context to understand mental health and mental health concerns of people.