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Circle of Influence CBT Grounding Exercise

Learn to focus your energy effectively by understanding what you can control, influence, or need to accept using this CBT grounding technique.

It is my control
It is in my influence
It is not in my control

Understanding these differences helps you focus your energy and reduce stress.

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In my control
In my influence
Not in my control

Your Responses

In my control

    In my influence

      Not in my control

        Activity Complete!

        Great job! Here's a summary of your categorizations:

        Control

          Influence

            Accept

              Welcome to the Circle of Influence exercise, a powerful CBT grounding technique. This interactive activity will help you categorize different aspects of life into three areas:

              1. Things in your control
              2. Things you can influence
              3. Things beyond your control (to accept)

              Understanding these differences can help you focus your energy more effectively and reduce stress. Follow the prompts and reflect on each situation to gain insights into your personal agency and improve your approach to life’s challenges.

              This CBT grounding technique is based on principles from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). It’s particularly beneficial for:

              However, this exercise may not be suitable for:

              If you’re unsure whether this CBT grounding technique is right for you, consider consulting with a mental health professional.

              One thing to think about: If you experience any form of neurodivergence, disability, or if you experience marginalization in any way, some of these categorizations may feel intense or not fully applicable to your situation. We encourage you to adapt the exercise to fit your unique experiences and perspectives. Your lived experience is valid and important.

              Remember, if you disagree with any categorizations in this exercise or have any feedback, please feel free to send us a message on Instagram @themindclan or discuss your thoughts with your therapist. This CBT grounding technique is meant to be a starting point for reflection, and your individual experiences and insights are valuable in shaping your understanding of personal agency and control.

              How To Use The Resource

              This CBT grounding technique is designed to be flexible and adaptable. Use it in a way that best suits your needs and preferences.

              Please be mindful that technical glitches can exist on this page. Please report any glitch to us when you experience them, but do trust your body and its signals, and do not push yourself too hard. If you feel uncomfortable, take a break or reach out to a professional for guidance.

              Circle of Influence Exercise - Interactive CBT Grounding Technique | TheMindClan.com

              Learn to distinguish between what you can control, influence, or need to accept in life with this CBT grounding technique. Explore the Circle of Influence exercise on TheMindClan.com - an interactive tool for understanding personal agency, reducing stress, and improving focus.

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